Aspiring to Kindness

John lives with his wife of 45 years, Penny, in San Jose, California.  He is a licensed psychologist and continues his private practice three days a week.  On Fridays, he writes.  He recently completed his first manuscript, “Aspiring to Kindness: Transforming Male Type A Behavior”.  You will soon find this self-published work on this website.  He and his wife are currently writing, “To Heal or Not to Heal: Love’s New Direction in the Emotional World”. 


John R. mcNeel, m.div.,ph.d.


Aspiring to kindness:

Transforming Male Type A Behavior

Emotional World

To Heal or Not To Heal

Redecision Therapy

Injunctive messages


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